As I considered today’s blog prompt, I realized that I would change nothing. As I navigate the many choices in my life whether good or bad, I realize all the decisions I made, and their consequences make me who I am.
For example, if I did not injure my hand in high school, I would not have become such close and long-term friends with the school nurse. She was a gem to have in my life and a wonderful mentor.
Early on in this blog, I had a post titled, “Those Questions,” which talked about the impact our decisions can have in our day. For example, if you had your coffee at home, you might not have met that special someone. If you slept in and didn’t go swimming that morning, you might not have met that important CEO.
I would make the same mistakes over again because of what I have learned from them. Those painful times have helped me learn compassion. Those bitter times have helped me learn to appreciate sweetness. Those tense times have taught me to learn to tame my thoughts and think before I respond.
Do not be discouraged when things go wrong. The Chinese word for “crisis” is considered “dangerous opportunity.” This helps me look for the lessons in less than pleasant situations.
Vela Patria 